The Lives of the Dead taught me a lot. So we all know that death sucks. Everyone knows that and there’s not much you can do about that. Are you really dead after you die? Well physically you are but what about the memory of you? Your memory still goes on because people won’t let that part of you die. You can’t really die if you are never forgotten. Your loved ones will continue to tell stories about you. Once someone tells a story about you, you are alive once again. You are alive in someone’s mind. Just like Linda was in O’Brien’s mind. She had died physically a long time ago but she was still alive in his mind. In his mind she didn’t have cancer anymore, she was healthy, and her hair had grown back completely.
Once you are alive you can never be dead because you have left your imprint in people’s minds. The mind has the ability to create believable situations. It can create dreams that seem so real that you think they are. O’Brien’s dreams of Linda were real to him so that meant she was too. She had never really left him. Her spirit was still floating around him and telling him not to cry. It was his way of coping with her physical death. So my point is that we don’t die at all. You are just waiting for someone to remember you again. When that happens you are free to frolic and play just like you used too. With the people who loved you the most.